NO Cilantro?!

She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. - Proverbs 31:14

We have a grocery store chain in my neck of the woods called Publix.

I love Publix.

Why?

Two words:

Customer Service.

Earlier tonight, I was scrambling to get the ingredients for a quick dinner I was making before hubbie got up from his nap to go do his weekly bowling with the guys. I got all my ingredients for the yummy family favorite chicken fajitas I was making…except the cilantro.

Ran back to the produce to grab the forgotten…but oh so necessary ingredient to find NONE! :(

Ack!

What was I going to do???

Think Quick!

Great! The produce manager just so happened to be IN the produce department working! I am certain he heard the desperation in my voice when I asked if there was any cilantro in the back…he already knew he was about to disappoint me. He must have felt compassion for the frazzled Mother standing before him, whose mind had gone completely blank as to what she would make her family instead, and time was running out!

He told me to wait a minute, he’d be right back.

*Jeopardy Music*

He comes back out with two cilantro herb plants…

Hmmmm…

He tells me they are all he has.

I look at the not so very abundantly endowed cilantro plants and sigh…

“How much are they?”

“Two for $4.”

Me–> !!!!!! + {Shocked look on my face}

“I don’t want to spend $4 on cilantro…especially when there is less than half of what I normally get for half that price”

{sad face}

He says, “take them both for price of one.”

“Really?”

“Yes, I am the produce manager, I can do that.” He winks.

I told him thank you and he had no idea how much he saved me from mental overload. LOL.

Not only did this man go out of his way to help me, he accommodated me and my cheapness! ROFL!

She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. - Proverbs 31:16

A Wife of Noble Character??

A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. - Proverbs 31:10

On a typical day my beloved husband can some home and find me with my hair pulled up tightly in a bun…possibly yelling for quiet. He may find me crying because I feel like a failure or even in a mood. And, yes, he finds me pretty and sane at times too…LOL. However, does he ever come home to a woman of noble character and does he find me worth more than fine rubies???

I hope so!

What does this mean?

Well, first, I think this is the definition of the entire Proverbs 31 woman. To simply this one verse, however… She is a woman who does not attack her husband with her own needs, wants hurts and crud the moment he walks through the door. She greets him and does her best to make HIM feel special, loved, accepted and appreciated. She is a woman who has character. She appreciates all that God gives her and puts her Daddy God first.

Am I this woman?

Honestly?

Most days, sadly, no… :( I am usually stressed out, over tired and annoyed. Not that I am a total shrew all the time. However, when I look at me and try to be as honest as I can about me, I see someone who needs an attitude adjustment, more one on one time with the Lord and to stop allowing life to change my moods!

So, my prayer is simple…

Daddy God, please help me to shine like the jewel I know you created me to be. Help me appreciate more, love more and see the negatives less. Help me to be a wife…woman…mother of noble character who will one day hear her children rise up and call me blessed! Thank you for your help, love and mercy! In Jesus Mighty Name, Amen.

How about you? What is your self evaluation? Do you need improvement? Ask God to help you! Be willing to MAKE the CHANGES…and guess what? You CAN! I CAN..WE CAN!

In Him,

LV